A video call lets you see faces, not just hear voices. It's free, and once it's set up, it only takes a tap or two.
Step 1: Pick the right app
The best app is the one your family already uses. Ask them. Here are the common ones:
- FaceTime – already on every iPhone and iPad. Works best when both of you have Apple devices.
- WhatsApp – free on any smartphone. Popular with families who live in other countries.
- Google Meet or Zoom – good for group calls with lots of family at once.
Step 2: Make a FaceTime call (iPhone or iPad)
- Open the FaceTime app. Its icon is green with a white video camera.
- Tap New FaceTime.
- Type the first few letters of your grandchild's name, then tap their name.
- Tap the green FaceTime button.
- Wait for them to answer. Hold the screen in front of your face, about an arm's length away.
- To hang up, tap the red button with the X or phone on it.
Step 3: Answer a video call
When they call you, your screen will light up with their name. Tap the green button, or slide it to the right. That's it.
Tips for a better call
- Face a window or lamp. Light in front of you helps them see your face.
- Prop it up. Lean your phone or tablet against a mug or use a simple stand. Your arms will thank you.
- Charge it first. Video calls use a lot of battery.
- Use Wi-Fi at home. The picture is smoother, and it won't use up your phone plan.
- Pick a regular time. "Sunday after lunch" is easy for everyone to remember.
If something goes wrong
- They can't hear you? Check you haven't tapped the microphone button. If it has a line through it, tap it again.
- They can't see you? Check the camera button the same way.
- The picture freezes? Hang up and call again. It's normal and nobody minds.
Want help setting it up?
On a visit, we can set up the app, add your family, and practice a real call together. I'll leave you a written note too.